domingo, 22 de marzo de 2009

Dear Amy:

I'm a regular guy. I'm funny, sincere and I like to spend time with people. My problem is that I'm very shy, and I have trouble trying to meet new people. I don't know how to start to talk with someone I'm interested to know, nor how to get closer to that person; I think that this is the most difficult step.

For example, I met a woman in a class and I think she is very smart, interesting and funny. I have talked with her just once but I think she is a person who is worth knowing.

What do you recommend me? I think that this problem is affecting my self confidence and my social life.


- G.G.

1 comentario:

MonseValCELE dijo...

I´m sure you´re a nice guy, maybe you, as many other people, are concern if you are going to like the other person.

You should start with small things, before start talking to a person who may gets you anxious, take a deep breath to calm you down.

When you are ready to talk to this person, look into her eyes, try to talk at the same volume, smile once in a while, it will make the other person feels comfortable and you will feel the same way.